That frustration isn’t their fault. — Misalignment turns others into enemies

This article is a continuation of “Bullying Is a Waste of Time.”

This time, through the bullies that appear in my manga, I’m going to show you something very clearly:

From an astrological perspective, how their actions were ultimately a waste.

All explanations are based on the actual story, so please read with that context in mind.

1. “Lie” — Yae Usayama

This is the easiest case to understand.

As shown in the story, the reason Usayama bullied Nekome was simple:

She felt suffocated by her own life, and couldn’t stand someone who lived freely.

The key point in her chart is the Ascendant — her natural self.

Her Ascendant is Sagittarius.

▶ Sagittarius Ascendant A person who expands, seeks meaning, and longs for freedom.

In other words, her true nature is freedom.

She was never meant to live confined by family rules or someone else’s expectations.

And yet—

she chose the exact opposite life.

That’s why the frustration built up.

And she directed it toward Nekome.

But what she actually needed to do was simple:

Live in alignment with her Ascendant.

If she had done that, there would have been no reason to feel irritated by Nekome at all.

So she fell into:

✔ Not using her own nature

✔ Trying to control the outside world

Which perfectly matches Reason ① from “Bullying is a Waste of Time.”

However—

Because of Nekome’s presence, she finally found a space where she could be herself.

And in that moment,

the tension she carried began to dissolve.

2. “That Winter Memory — To You, My Eternal Love” — Suguru Takeda

His case is also rooted in the Ascendant, but it’s more complex.

His Ascendant:

▶ Leo 17°

 A presence that shines naturally, in harmony, without forcing dominance.

In the story, he is portrayed as:

✔ Reliable

✔ Respected

✔ The ideal leader

A “perfect Leo figure.”

But this is where the trap lies.

His true nature was:

Not someone who needed to stand above others.

And yet—

he played the role of a charismatic leader.

That’s what created his internal suffering.

Then came Akiko—

a presence that shook his position.

→ Fear of losing his status 

→ Bullying begins

But here’s the key point:

Bullying solves nothing.

Because the problem was never external.

It was his way of being — his Ascendant.

What he needed was not:

✔ To control Akiko But:

✔ To step down from the throne

In other words:

Return to his true self.

He fell into both:

✔ Reason ①

✔ Reason ②

from “Bullying is a Waste of Time.”

However—

Through Ryoko, he was forcefully pulled down from that pedestal.

And only then—

he was finally able to return to who he truly was.

3. “The Awakened Dragon Smiles Unknowingly” — Tsuyoshi Shinmei

His case is even more complex.

This time, the key is not the Ascendant—

but the Moon (emotional safety).

His Moon:

▶ Leo 17° × 12th House

This means his emotional security exists in:

✔ Places where he isn’t expected to perform

✔ Spaces away from visibility

✔ Realms where boundaries dissolve

However—

he chose a completely different life:

✔ Organization

✔ Achievement

✔ Recognition

In other words:

He lived while abandoning his Moon.

And what did that lead to?

→ Obsession with being “the chosen one” 

→ Attacking others (Ryu) 

→ Bullying begins

But of course—

none of it fulfilled him.

Because the root issue was:

His Moon was never being used.

Because of this misalignment,

he committed serious harm

and ultimately brought down his own position.

He also fell into:

✔ Reason ①

✔ Reason ②

However—

By standing next to Ryu, someone far beyond him,

he gained:

✔ A place where he didn’t have to carry expectations

✔ A position where he didn’t need to be chosen

And for the first time—

he was finally able to let go.

Conclusion

All three share the same pattern:

✔ Misalignment within ↓

✔ Frustration arises ↓ 

✔ Attempt to control others (bullying) ↓ 

✔ Nothing is resolved

Because the true cause is:

their own “stars.”

So the fastest way forward is:

Understand your nature from the beginning and learn to use it.

That is why:

Bullying is a waste of time.

Final Note

This is also why, in my manga:

✔ I don’t write revenge

✔ I don’t write payback

Instead, I portray:

A structure where even the bully can be saved.

If this perspective resonates with you,

 then these stories might become

 a guide for your own life.